Why is our society so obsessed with phones? If it rings, answer it!!
It is almost like we live our lives just in anticipation that someone will call. Why do I have to stop my life every time someone calls? Why am I looked at as a scrooge when I choose not to answer the phone?
Yes, I understand in the past we actually liked to answer the phone because we never knew who it was. It was kind of like playing a game and you never knew if you were going to win or not. Maybe we liked to talk because the caller had to pay the bill and not the recipient. However these days that is not always the case.
Cell phones for instance all tell you who or at least what number someone is calling from. Not only that but you both get charged whether you made the call or answered the call. If they choose to block their number well then I simply choose to not answer, sorry no more games. Yes, It frustrates my dad when I do not answer his calls just because I cannot see who is calling, oh well!! If he wanted to talk to me that much he would simply turn his number back on.
Likewise with home phones, They all have to option to see who the caller is as well. I myself use Vonage therefore caller ID is included, but I believe it is available with almost all services even land lines for the right price.
So I ask again: Why do I HAVE to answer it just because it rings?
- What if I can't get there in time?
- What if I don't feel like talking to anyone?
- What if I have a life and I am busy doing something else?
- What if I would like 30 seconds of peace in my life and just want to relax?
- What if I can see you on caller ID and simply don't want to talk to you?
- What if you have already left me 3 messages and I simply don't want to talk to you?
- What if? What if? What if?
So many questions and in the end one simple answer.
I run my life not the phone!
If you decide to throw yourself a little pity party when I do not answer, Enjoy! Don’t invite me!
I once read that there are things that act and things that are acted upon. I prefer to be the one who acts! I refuse to let an object run my life.
PS. If you disagree or for some reason feel like you need to give me a call to talk, just pick up the phone and give me a call.
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